Venus Square Saturn

Square of Venus: Relationships between people are rarely human. The square of Venus gives a person difficulties in the spheres governed by the planet in social contacts, during which he often encounters rudeness, poor mutual understanding, and inadequacy in his own behavior in society. A person is drawn to people in the relevant spheres, he craves love colored by the planet's principle (for example, Jupiter—luxurious), understanding, deep involvement in public life, and at the same time he is capricious, intolerant, does not understand much, and, most importantly, does not feel in communication with people, not noticing this at all, as a result of which the most wonderful promises of fate end in cruel disappointment. In general, karmic programs symbolized by the square often begin quite successfully and even promisingly, like a trine, and only when a person is sufficiently involved (emotionally, mentally, and existentially) does he begin to feel resistance, heaviness, and the need for hard work. Even the square of the Sun—Mars can begin its manifestation not as a harsh blow of fate, but as an attractive adventure, and as for the squares of Venus, initial joys and emotional involvements are typical for them; thus, the most unhappy (later) love still begins with bright moments, which (not only with the square of Venus) should be treated with sufficient caution and attention. At a low level, the square of Venus gives disharmonious social egoism and at the same time self-sacrifice. In other words, if a person has poor energy, society does not love him and sacrifices itself (in situations when the planet is active) without anesthesia; if a person has sufficient strength, he himself distorts the lives of those around him, trying to use them (roughly and clumsily) for selfish purposes, which makes them feel bad, and he does not feel better (more than for a moment, after which disappointment follows). This person will have very peculiar and sharp aesthetic tastes in the spheres of the planet's influence (sometimes crude), which are difficult to please, which at a low level gives capriciousness, and at a high level, on the contrary, an original creative hand in art. In general, the square of Venus will create great difficulties on the path to art (but also a strong need for it), in particular, poor teachers or bad relationships with them, and a person, if he can, will grow mainly through internal efforts and self-teaching, which he will always feel himself, and an inner doubt will never leave him: "Is what I am doing real art?" (just as the square of Mercury gives ineradicable doubts: "Are my thoughts really smart?" even if this is generally recognized), which, of course, is unpleasant, but does not allow a person to settle for what has been achieved—something that is generally characteristic of the square. Square of Saturn: The steps of the evolutionary ladder are not covered with a carpet. The square of Saturn presents a person with a problem in the spheres of the planet's influence: deep immersion in oneself, the development of inner discipline, and the search for truth in silent concentration. The problem here is that, on the one hand, a person is attracted to the planetary principle, he wants to deeply understand and master it, and on the other, attempts at such study encounter the strongest resistance, both external and internal. The study itself turns out to be very difficult, requiring much more concentration and effort than a person currently has, and, in addition, external and internal chaotic forces constantly distract him from this occupation. As a result of several unsuccessful attempts, the planetary principle (and in many ways all spheres of its influence) is frozen and perceived by the person as unattainable, although subconsciously it is extremely desirable. The subconscious reacts with various techniques that tie a person to this disharmonious situation, for example, it creates saving complexes of inferiority and neuroses that protect him from the need to participate in situations that activate the planet, but unfortunately have various side effects (for example, an increased general level of nervousness, i.e., constant readiness for trouble, which leads to increased pressure, etc.). If the planet is stronger in the square, it can replace Saturn's purely disciplined spheres with its own principle, suppressing discipline and concentration; for example, the square of Venus—Saturn with a strong Saturn gives (at a low level) rigidity and rudeness in social contacts and love, and with a strong Venus it can, on the contrary, give frivolity and indiscrimination in connections (especially if the square is in a mutable cross); in this case, of course, the person's heart will be frozen. The square of Saturn makes it impossible to manifest the planetary principle naturally; here a person needs wisdom and precise adherence to the karmic program, which at this point (as if by mischief!) is very subtle and winding. This situation is like trying to carve wood with an axe or dance a ballroom dance in a diving suit. When a person begins, every movement is crude—rough and unsatisfactory from any point of view, but the desire to learn and ambition can be very strong here, and much depends on the person himself, his inner honesty, and his general desire to realize himself and participate in the evolutionary process (as he understands it). Working through the square of Saturn gives a person subtlety, wisdom, and the ability to see and help develop corresponding abilities in other people when they are not yet noticeable to anyone else.

Such people are usually plagued by chronic dissatisfaction with life. They are simultaneously shy, sensitive, and emotionally stingy, often having to sacrifice pleasure for work, which can be quite depressing. Therefore, many view them as cold and even narrow-minded. They are constantly defending themselves against something or someone, constantly afraid of being misunderstood and abandoned. Their lives are often fraught with problems in their relationships with their parents, and so they feel much better when they move away from home. These people have difficulty expressing their true feelings, and therefore are forced to make many concessions to others in life. They rarely marry before age 28, especially since early marriages are rarely happy. The most important thing for them is to learn how to communicate with others. They strive for sobriety and composure, rigor and refinement of style in everything they do, but sometimes they unnecessarily narrow their scope of action and completely abandon softness and generosity. Their self-discipline should not degenerate into self-restraint and empty asceticism. Such people openly pursue erotic relationships, but rarely achieve complete mutual understanding with their partner. Because of this, their erotic lives often take a very unexpected, if not perverse, turn. They are often cunning and anti-religious. Family life brings them many worries and concerns. Despite their pronounced craving for pleasure, they often have a low libido, which brings additional difficulties and problems. They are characterized by a certain restraint of feelings, excessive shyness, excessive formality in behavior, and melancholy. They often love unrequitedly and are jealous, but without reason. These people are characterized by prudence in work and self-restraint in love.

Melancholy, emotional restraint, shyness or tension, stiffness, formality. Adversities that deprive one of one's sympathies, leading to disappointment. Unrequited love. This results in an antisocial attitude, an even greater loss of sympathy. They can be calculating in business, power, and respect. Having power or wealth, they try to attract a younger partner, or young people entangle themselves with older people for their wealth. As a result, there is no happiness, a loveless relationship. In art, it brings technical mastery, but a lack of originality (if confirmed). Often, material need. Great responsibility hinders happiness. Parents can be a burden or emotionally oppressive. Greed and jealousy (if confirmed). With this aspect, it is difficult to find peace and happiness; either a harsh life, or a strong reaction to everyday adversity.

Your child is reasonable, fair, and restrained in showing love. It is possible that he is shy, shy, and has a low sense of self-esteem. It seems to him that he needs to do something important, very specific, in order to be loved. Parents can be emotionally abusive. Sometimes he may feel afraid that there is no love at all, or that love hurts. Parents should help him feel the boundaries that he himself erects in an effort to resist intimacy. They themselves must give him enough warmth and love and not put him under emotional pressure.

Opposition, square: pessimism in love. A person painfully experiences any separation, breakup, and everything appears to them in a dark light: "It will end badly," "It won't last long"... Often, it is based on an emotional trauma experienced in childhood. This can lead to insatiability and excessive demands in love. As a result, there are constant worries and torments, endless doubts in the feelings shown by others. In the worst case, it can lead to moralizing and a tendency to make the most severe judgments.

You have trouble accepting responsibilities. You don't like them. You would rather enjoy yourself at the expense of any obligations, letting them accumulate as they will. This struggle with authority and simple duty makes for great tension and diminished good times. It is hard to have fun when you are ignoring your responsibilities. What we have here is a stalemate.

Weakness, jealousy, suspicion, disappointment, dissatisfaction, pettiness, calculation, greed, emotional coldness, alienation, separations, losses. In men - love for a woman older than themselves, unrequited love. Masochism, perversions, immorality. The positive side - a strong sense of duty, responsibility.