Venus Square Neptune

Square of Venus: Relationships between people are rarely human. The square of Venus gives a person difficulties in the spheres governed by the planet in social contacts, during which he often encounters rudeness, poor mutual understanding, and inadequacy in his own behavior in society. A person is drawn to people in the relevant spheres, he craves love colored by the principle of the planet (for example, Jupiter—luxurious), understanding, deep involvement in public life, and at the same time he is capricious, intolerant, does not understand much, and, most importantly, does not feel in communication with people, not noticing this at all, as a result of which the most wonderful promises of fate end in cruel disappointment. In general, karmic programs symbolized by the square often begin quite successfully and even promisingly, resembling a trine, and only when a person is sufficiently involved (emotionally, mentally, and existentially) does he begin to feel resistance, heaviness, and the need for hard work. Even the square of the Sun—Mars can begin its manifestation not as a harsh blow of fate, but as an attractive adventure, and as for the squares of Venus, initial joys and emotional involvements are typical for them; thus, the most unhappy (later) love still begins with bright moments, to which (not only with the square of Venus) one should treat with sufficient caution and attention. At a low level, the square of Venus gives disharmonious social egoism and simultaneously self-sacrifice. In other words, if a person has poor energy, society does not love him and sacrifices itself (in situations when the planet is active) without anesthesia; if a person has sufficient strength, he himself distorts the lives of those around him, trying to use them (crudely and clumsily) for selfish purposes, which makes them feel bad, and he does not feel better (more than for a moment, after which disappointment follows). This person will have very peculiar and sharp aesthetic tastes in the spheres of influence of the planet (sometimes crude), which are difficult to please, which at a low level gives capriciousness, and at a high level, on the contrary, an original creative hand in art. In general, the square of Venus will create great difficulties on the path to art (but also a strong need for it), in particular, poor teachers or bad relationships with them, and a person, if he can, will grow mainly through internal efforts and self-education, which he will always feel himself, and an inner doubt will never leave him: "Is what I am doing real art?" (just as the square of Mercury gives ineradicable doubts: "Are my thoughts really smart?" even if this is generally recognized), which is certainly unpleasant but does not allow a person to rest on his laurels—something that is generally characteristic of the square. Square of Neptune: One needs a great deal of inner honesty to recognize its lack in oneself. This is a difficult aspect. The square of Neptune gives distorted meditations, often of a lower order, an inexplicable attraction for a person to the planetary principle and at the same time a very poor understanding of it, or rather, a false understanding, illusions, and delusions from which it is difficult for a person to believe and even harder to part with. Neptune deceives a person, a person deceives the whole world and himself, then sees part of this deception and stops believing—in everything, including himself, but not for long (or rather, partially), after which he deceives himself and the whole world again, and the world deceives him. This can lead to an abyss, to despair, to vices, or, on the contrary, awaken a higher aspiration and call a person to God. The result is difficult to predict, but in any case, a person should always be on guard and never consider a conquered position final. In this case, the lower nature can be fed by very dirty meditations (at the level of alcohol, drugs, family scandals, etc.), and it will not be easy to re-educate it. The square of Neptune—Saturn can give a perverted pleasure from one’s inability to do anything, and a person can live for a long time in a cycle: a short concentrated effort ending in nothing—a long meditation on one’s own insignificance, with a masochistic shade, and this cycle will likely involve close relatives and a psychoanalyst. (In general, the square of higher planets is an aspect of black teachers, in this case with a mystical and psychological bias). Karmically, this aspect means the need to work through the theme of self-deception and lower meditations ("vice") on the material of the planetary principle, the inclusion of which makes the corresponding subconscious programs very clear. Working through here is difficult; it requires abandoning all lower meditations (including sweet self-accusations) and consistent honest constructive work in the areas related to the planet; the inclusion of Pluto and, to some extent, working through Saturn helps. At a high level, a person comprehends the subtlest manifestations of the planetary principle and its connection with the principle of cosmic love as it manifests in external reality and the souls of specific people, which can make him a mystic, preacher, or saint, but he will never rid himself of the irrational feeling of guilt before the world in the spheres of the planet.

For these people, it's crucial to control their unrealistic idealism, emotional excesses, and the constant struggle between reason and feelings. They are easily seduced and deceived, both materially and politically. They are good strategists and mathematicians, but professional success is only achieved with significant support and patronage from influential people. These people are extremely sensitive to drug abuse. If they feel insufficiently appreciated by others, they blame the world for it. They appreciate art and love social life, often being the children of wealthy parents. The main thing for them is to consistently overcome self-doubt and a lack of faith in a better future. They are characterized by sentimentality, easily stimulated imagination, pronounced sensuality, strangely arising bizarre sympathies, unusual feelings, and a passionate love of art. Even towards those they truly love, they display a strange suspicion; trusting is almost unknown to them. The lives of such people are full of emotional and sexual difficulties arising from deep inner experiences that draw them into a whirlwind of all-powerful passions. Such people are usually unable to sacrifice their personal freedom, which leads to numerous difficulties in marriage. Their craving for unusual sexual experiences and secret intimate relationships often remains unfulfilled. Overexertion of desires can lead to neurotic states. All of these people's emotional and sexual problems are rooted in their past experiences, deeply ingrained in their subconscious. Marital happiness often suffers due to their own dishonesty and their partner's insincerity. The power of imagination brings such vivid sexual visions that the intensity of passions gives rise to developing emotional complexes.

Emotional difficulties associated with the subconscious and imagination. Emotional and sexual issues related to past experiences lodged in the subconscious. This is a karmic aspect. Escape to a world of fantasy from harsh reality, sometimes drugs and alcoholism. Love is given foolishly, and there is a risk of scandals due to questionable relationships and financial complications. Sex is a pretext for attacks. Happiness in marriage suffers from dishonesty and insincerity. The power of imagination can produce sexual visions that inflame passion, leading to emotional complexes. Often shyness and restraint, but a tendency toward secret affairs. Secret sexual orgies, sometimes homosexuality. In a positive variant, artistic talent and aesthetic perception are associated with a strong Saturn position; otherwise, a lack of discipline for the practical application of these abilities. Often hypersensitivity, unprovoked resentment, laziness, often exploited in an attempt to evoke pity. They readily indulge in dubious schemes, just to make a quick buck, but they need to exercise caution in finances and love. Sometimes they are great idealists, seeking impossible relationships. One should be wary of cultish, unrealistic forms and unrealistic religious beliefs.

Opposition, square: a person feels simple, everyday love unacceptable for himself; he is attracted to something impossible, distant, confusing. He often makes mistakes in his choice and as a result finds himself in incredible situations, sometimes becoming a victim. After all, his desire for the ideal, the absolute, does not fully agree with reality, and he is looking in the wrong place, and is not at all attached to those who could be a suitable match for him. Thanks to these aspects, the emotional can be sublimated into religious or artistic aspirations and, in any case, stimulate greater creative activity.

Emotional and sexual problems are often associated with negative childhood experiences. Departure into the world of fantasy, away from harsh reality; often - drugs, alcoholism. Danger of scandals due to dubious connections and financial complications. Secret sexual orgies, sometimes homosexuality. In the positive version - abilities in art. With a weak Saturn, there is a lack of discipline necessary for the practical application of abilities. Often touchy, lazy. They easily agree to dubious plans just to make quick money, but they need to be careful in love and finance.

Your child is very active, dreamy, and especially sensitive. People say that he is living in a cloud. He can be too trusting and not always understand other people. He gets hurt easily by the coldness of those close to him. He has an extraordinary sensitivity to the beautiful, a tendency towards refined forms of art. There may be unconscious emotional problems, self-doubt, and a tendency to escape into a world of fantasy from the harsh reality of life. Parents should protect such a child from narcotics, to which he is extremely sensitive.

Your value system has little room for the mystical, much less whatever the psychics are talking about. When these things crop up, you cut them off early on. Your position is simple: dreams, images, spiritual thoughts, and what-not are just not your cup of tea. You don't care for them. And yet, this whole subject fascinates you. There is a siren-like quality to all of this, calling and luring you. Sooner or later, this must be worked through.