Venus Square Mars

Venus square: Relationships between people are rarely human. Venus square creates difficulties for a person in the areas governed by the planet in social contacts, during which he often encounters rudeness, poor mutual understanding, and inadequacy in his own behavior in society. A person is drawn to people in the relevant areas, he craves love colored by the planet's principle (for example, Jupiter—luxurious), understanding, deep involvement in public life, and at the same time he is capricious, intolerant, does not understand much, and, most importantly, does not feel it in communication with people, completely unaware of it. As a result, the most wonderful promises of fate end in cruel disappointment. In general, karmic programs symbolized by a square often begin quite successfully and even promisingly, like a trine, and only when a person becomes sufficiently involved (emotionally, mentally, and existentially) does he begin to feel resistance, heaviness, and the need for hard work. Even a Sun–Mars square may begin its manifestation not as a harsh blow of fate, but as an attractive adventure, and as for Venus squares, they are typically characterized by initial joys and emotional involvement. Thus, the most unhappy (later) love still begins with bright moments, to which (not only with a Venus square) one should treat with sufficient caution and attention. At a low level, Venus square gives disharmonious social egoism and, at the same time, self-sacrifice. In other words, if a person has poor energy, society does not love him and sacrifices itself (in situations when the planet is active) without any pain relief; if a person has sufficient strength, he himself distorts the lives of those around him, trying (clumsily and awkwardly) to use them for selfish purposes, which makes them feel bad, and him no better (more than for a moment, after which disappointment follows). This person will have very peculiar and sharp aesthetic tastes in the areas influenced by the planet (sometimes crude), which are difficult to please. At a low level, this gives capriciousness, but at a high level, on the contrary, it gives an original creative hand in art. In general, Venus square will create great difficulties on the path to art (but also a strong need for it), in particular, poor teachers or bad relationships with them, and if a person succeeds, he will grow mainly through his own efforts and self-education, which he will always feel himself, and an inner doubt will never leave him: "Is what I am doing real art?" (just as Mercury square gives ineradicable doubts: "Are my thoughts really smart?" even if it is generally recognized), which is certainly unpleasant, but does not allow a person to rest on his laurels—this is generally characteristic of a square. Mars square: The razor with which the writer's style is honed should not be used to chop cabbage. Mars square gives planetary manifestations roughness, disharmonious force that destroys its principle in any subtle manifestations. This destruction occurs both in the inner and outer world, and if a person does not try to oppose it, it is quite strong. Karmically, Mars square means a ban on direct, immediate energetic manifestation of the planetary principle (which never turns out to be harmonious or constructive) and a requirement to work out its higher octave. At the same time, a person is internally very interested in the areas governed by the planet, he is drawn there by some force, and his opinion about his abilities (and often achievements) in these areas can be very high, although failures and disappointments will not keep him waiting. At a low level, this person in the areas of the planet can sometimes be dangerous to others, but he himself is always at maximum risk. In the case of Mars square, the law of karma, which punishes for bringing disharmony into the world, acts energetically and often quite quickly (sometimes, however, the return blow hits only the inner world of a person, in whose soul destruction occurs, which may go unnoticed by others, except for the fact that the general level of the person sharply decreases, i.e., he degrades). In inner life, this aspect gives an opportunity for significant growth, awareness of one's crudest subconscious programs, including almost animal instincts represented in this case very vividly and prominently, especially when the planet is activated, and their transformation into a more civilized and acceptable form, i.e., a transition to energies of higher vibrations. Working out this aspect gives an opportunity to work with the planet on low energies, but at the same time manifesting such subtleties of its principle that are generally inaccessible otherwise. A person will know everything about the destructive force of the planet in its lower octave, which will give him an understanding of its manifestations in others and the ability to help them work out its principle, especially in curbing their lower nature in the relevant areas. However, he will never be able to master the free flow of its vibrations at a low level. Thus, Mars–Venus square can give a refined debauchee or an excellent sexologist, but this person will never become a sexual giant.

These aspects indicate impulsiveness, amorousness, and heightened sexuality. Such people tend to express their feelings openly, but if others don't reciprocate, it deeply hurts them. They often criticize others when they are dissatisfied with themselves. They expect too much from others, and therefore their family and business lives are full of all sorts of conflicts. They have better relationships with members of the opposite sex than with members of their own sex. Such people often turn out to be romantic lovers, prone to excessive pleasures. They are attractive, but often disappointed not only in specific attachments but in love itself. They are characterized by poorly controlled sensuality, capriciousness, extravagance, and constant disagreements in marriage and partnerships. Many of the consequences of their erotic relationships are life-changing. They are constantly caught between love and passion, in a chronic conflict. Separations and intimate failures are common in their lives, leading them to become selfish and cynical over the years. These people often tend to "solve" their emotional problems through alcohol abuse. These aspects are especially strong in the 1st, 3rd, 5th, 7th, 9th, and 10th Houses. Very often, these people experience emotional difficulties in love and are characterized by a lack of taste and tact in everyday life. They tend to use members of the opposite sex only for sexual gratification, or they seek to be used by them. They are distinguished by a particularly strong primal instinct, and therefore they need to learn self-control.

Your child is charming and impulsive. His emotions are passionate and strong, but sometimes he can be persistent in expressing them. He is amorous and openly expresses his sympathies and feelings, but if he is not answered in kind, it deeply hurts him. When he feels that he is dissatisfied with himself, or he is dissatisfied with himself, this child may criticize others. He can find his self-expression in creativity and art. You should help him learn beautiful, smooth body movements so that he does not feel clumsy and helpless. Playing percussion musical instruments, sports dancing, any type of gymnastics will give his creative energy strength and focus.

Emotional difficulties in love. A tendency to use the opposite sex only for sexual gratification or to be used. A lack of taste or tact in everyday life. Strong instincts. Self-control is essential. Unbridled passions will bring harm to oneself. Men treat women abusively and rudely. Women can drive a man crazy and enrage him. With a strong Mars, there is a love of crude jokes, and if Venus is strong, there is sensitivity; rude behavior easily hurts. Emotional sensitivity does not mean they care about the feelings of others. There is a lack of harmony and satisfaction in the family.

Opposition, square: love-desire and love-tenderness are perceived as incompatible - because of this, physical attraction and tender, sensual affection rarely appear simultaneously in relation to the same person. In other cases, these aspects correspond to love-battle, love-duel. This is a confrontation in which one is the winner and the other is defeated. A person thinks only about his own desires, about their satisfaction, forgets about the existence of another, or behaves like a child.

What you don't love is the parade of emotions -- directness from others. What you do love and appreciate may not be as clear to you as what you do not love. You are troubled by all that gets too pushy, physical, and gushy. About this you are clear. Sports, ordeals of bravery, and all that is too physical is objectionable. Given the world as it is and your predisposition, a certain amount of emotional tension is unavoidable.

Sensuality, sensitivity, extravagance, immorality, indecency, passion, lust, a tendency toward perversion and debauchery. Disharmony in love, lack of restraint in emotions, conflict, scandalousness, and loudness. Sloppiness, uncleanliness, and untidiness. Developing this aspect produces talented people, creative abilities, and a passionate creative spirit.