Venus Opposition Mars

Venus Opposition: The world's lack of love for you is not proof of its complete egoism. Venus' opposition raises problems of social interaction in the spheres governed by the Planet, both ethical and aesthetic, not to mention emotional ones, and especially love. If the emphasis is on Venus, the person is imbued with social attitudes and standard ethics and encounters the external manifestations of the Planetary principle fully armed with the cliches of the social consciousness and subconscious. In general, they view any manifestation of the Planet from an aesthetic perspective, or even more biasedly, from the standpoint of "like - dislike," "love - dislike," and here a bizarre mixture of purely personal likes and dislikes is characteristic, along with standard socially imposed attitudes that the person initially fails to distinguish from personal ones. If the emphasis is on the Planet and the person internalizes its principle, then Venus manifests as an external opponent, in the form of social influences (often hostile) and negative ethical and aesthetic assessments of the external world, which the person may fiercely fight, not realizing that the causes of the antagonism lie in the internal imbalance of the principles of Venus and the Planet. For example, with Venus in opposition to Saturn, a person experiences a deep desire to devote themselves to serious art. If they emphasize the principle of Venus, i.e., perceive themselves as a free artist with no obligations other than inhabiting the world of Beauty, they reject Saturn's principle of discipline, in fact, externalizing it. The lack of truly persistent and purposeful pursuits (internal laxity, i.e., the weakness of Saturn in the inner world) leads to the activation of Saturn in the external world: various external obstacles arise and a general feeling as if the external world is cold and disapproving of the person. Conversely, the internalization of Saturn, i.e., fixation on its principle, when a person internally concentrates and withdraws into themselves, immerses themselves in solitary, serious work, or simply rigidly ignores the world, leads to the activation of Venus in external life: guests with champagne and invitations to balls appear out of nowhere, and lovers or admirers become animated (in cases where Venus is in harmonious aspects) or sharp social conflicts arise, often with complaints about a person's egotistical behavior (if Venus is afflicted). In general, a major aspect to Venus raises the issue of love, and in areas governed by the Planet in opposition to Venus, a person will at some point face a very pressing question: what they want: to love or to be loved. Working through this principle results in a stable fusion of the Planetary principle with the Venusian one: all manifestations of the Planet become perfect in form and filled with love for people; in areas governed by the Planet, a person will have an excellent understanding of people and the ability to influence large social programs. Mars Opposition: Having conquered an external enemy, watch how it becomes internal; having mastered the internal, watch how it becomes externalized. The Planet's principle in opposition to Mars will be constantly subject to forceful influence, and establishing interaction with this force will be quite difficult. If the primary emphasis is on the Planet, and the person identifies to a certain extent with its principle, then the external environment quickly becomes aggressive and begins to greatly hinder them. If they begin to actively fight it, they quickly develop a taste for the struggle and, forgetting their original plans, overemphasize the opposition. As a result, Mars becomes internally emphasized, and the Planet's principle loses its significance for the person, shifting to the external world and acquiring the role of an enemy, as described by the well-known aphorism, "What you fight for, you get." For example, when Mars opposes Saturn, one cannot strive for discipline; one can only honestly strive to be disciplined to the best of one's ability. Otherwise, such a struggle ends in major troubles, external limitations (the lower octave of Saturn), and the triumph of internal chaos. Here, the problem often manifests itself in the fact that a person feels strength only during the external manifestations of the Planetary principle, but is inclined to fight them. Having conquered and internalized the Planet, they completely lose their strength. The most painful and incomprehensible moments of the opposition reversal, i.e., the re-emphasis of Mars and the Planet, are precisely the subtle moments of the reversal of the opposition. Processing provides a stable force for the Planet's manifestations, precisely in the quantity and at the vibrations it requires. This gives a person greater self-confidence and the ability to balance the most challenging and tense situations (related to the Planet's principle and the houses it and Mars occupy and rule, as well as the aspects of these planets). At a low level, and especially when Mars is afflicted, its opposition can lead to destructive aggression in both the individual and the external environment. It should be kept in mind that instability of the opposition, i.e., frequent, uncontrolled shifts in planetary emphasis, indicates poor processing. Conversely, systematic work on monitoring and consciously managing this is the most effective means of achieving stability and harmony with oneself and the outside world.

These aspects indicate impulsiveness, amorousness, and heightened sexuality. Such people tend to express their feelings openly, but if others don't reciprocate, it deeply hurts them. They often criticize others when they are dissatisfied with themselves. They expect too much from others, and therefore their family and business lives are full of all sorts of conflicts. They have better relationships with members of the opposite sex than with members of their own sex. Such people often turn out to be romantic lovers, prone to excessive pleasures. They are attractive, but often disappointed not only in specific attachments but in love itself. They are characterized by poorly controlled sensuality, capriciousness, extravagance, and constant disagreements in marriage and partnerships. Many of the consequences of their erotic relationships are life-changing. They are constantly caught between love and passion, in a chronic conflict. Separations and intimate failures are common in their lives, leading them to become selfish and cynical over the years. These people often tend to "solve" their emotional problems through alcohol abuse. These aspects are especially strong in the 1st, 3rd, 5th, 7th, 9th, and 10th Houses. Very often, these people experience emotional difficulties in love and are characterized by a lack of taste and tact in everyday life. They tend to use members of the opposite sex only for sexual gratification, or they seek to be used by them. They are distinguished by a particularly strong primal instinct, and therefore they need to learn self-control.

Difficulties in emotional relationships, especially sexual ones. High sensitivity, easily offended by unfriendliness. This aspect manifests itself in two ways, depending on which planet is stronger: if Venus is in a woman's horoscope, she will be treated cruelly; if Mars is, the opposite sex will be used for personal gratification, with little regard for the partner. This is detrimental to marital happiness; there will be a lack of emotional and sexual understanding. Often, spouses have nothing in common except sex. Mars is the ruler of the 5th house, and Venus the 7th, so principles of sexual instinct are involved. Disagreements over shared finances with a spouse or partner are common. Separation from a spouse is common if they are absent for some reason, leaving the other unhappy and dissatisfied.

Your child is charming and impulsive. His emotions are passionate and strong, but sometimes he can be persistent in expressing them. He is amorous and openly expresses his sympathies and feelings, but if he is not answered in kind, it deeply hurts him. When he feels that he is dissatisfied with himself, or he is dissatisfied with himself, this child may criticize others. He can find his self-expression in creativity and art. You should help him learn beautiful, smooth body movements so that he does not feel clumsy and helpless. Playing percussion musical instruments, sports dancing, any type of gymnastics will give his creative energy strength and focus.

Opposition, square: love-desire and love-tenderness are perceived as incompatible - because of this, physical attraction and tender, sensual affection rarely appear simultaneously in relation to the same person. In other cases, these aspects correspond to love-battle, love-duel. This is a confrontation in which one is the winner and the other is defeated. A person thinks only about his own desires, about their satisfaction, forgets about the existence of another, or behaves like a child.

You don't enjoy forwardness in others and tend to interpret any direct approach as pushiness. Emotions, and the scenes that go with them, are avoided by you rather than welcomed. You see little value in raw enthusiasm and prefer yours thoroughly tame and house-broken. You don't wear your heart on your sleeve, and you resent it when others do. You may actually confront those around you on these issues. It is doubtful that you are a great fan of sports and the whole outdoor chic.

Difficulties in emotional relationships, especially in the family. Increased sensitivity. They get offended quickly. In a woman's horoscope: if Venus is stronger, then the woman will be treated poorly; if Mars is stronger, then she will selfishly use her partner. This is bad for happiness in marriage: partners often have nothing in common except sex. It is not uncommon to break up with a partner.