Venus in Gemini

Here is the translated text: Here, Venus is in the airy sign and a guest of Mercury. Since Gemini is a changeable and inclined to renewal sign, your attachments and feelings are likely to be light and weightless, superficial and changeable, quickly arising and changing, but only compared to others, as this is normal for you. You probably exhibit this as a need for new emotional experience, a tendency to novelty and renewal of feelings. This position of Venus often gives changeability and unreliability, a desire for new experience in love, the ability to form quick and short connections. Gemini is a sign of the mobile cross, giving a setting for the current situation, so you may experience sympathies and even love as an emotion for the person who is currently next to you. Strong feelings are not characteristic of you as a rule. Since Venus is a guest of Mercury here, you may have a rationalism in love or infatuation. You probably love being loved more than loving yourself. The air element, as a wonderful conductor, may also give you a requirement for someone to affect you or for something to come out of you. You may want to be only a conductor of emotions and feelings, because giving and active expressions of feelings are more characteristic of fire signs. In general, you should be attracted to lively, light, and interesting communication partners, those who are not "sufferers" on the love field and do not get stuck in their feelings. You may have several lovers or mistresses at the same time, and with a "cruel" Venus in Gemini, there may be promiscuity, light-mindedness, and a constant desire to change partners ("Don Juanism" of a light type). You may also fall in love with someone from your close relatives, because the sign of Gemini is connected with the closest environment of a person, particularly with his brothers or sisters. In childhood, your emotional world developed through communication, and without communication, a blockage of emotional development would have occurred, you would have been inhibited, and you would have almost not included your sensual sphere. Venus in Gemini gives the type of women who have the saying "A woman loves with her ears," because for them it is important to be told about their feelings. They will also talk a lot about their feelings and relationships. That is, if you don't tell them about your feelings, you won't emotionally engage. When talking about this, a woman with Venus in Gemini may even reveal how far she is willing to go. With this position of Venus in your horoscope, you will generally love to talk about your feelings and relationships, although this is not necessarily a detailed analysis, it may be just a discussion or small talk. These conversations rarely turn into an information flow, but rather it is one of your favorite forms of relaxation. You will relax best in the company where time does not pass without such communication, and for relaxation, you need short trips in companies. The emotional criterion of harmony and optimal relaxation is formed in you primarily through direct communication, that is, you should communicate with students, relatives, neighbors, brothers, and sisters.

Venus in Gemini is love that begins with conversation. Not with a glance, not with a touch—with words. Whoever can make you laugh has already almost won your heart. And whoever can also listen has won completely. Archetype The conversationalist who flirts with ideas. For this Venus, the ideal date is when at 3 AM you're still talking and haven't noticed how time has passed, where you are, or why the waiters are already stacking chairs. Beauty for her lies in wit, lightness, and the warmth of the mind. A boring handsome man loses to an interesting conversationalist by a score of one to a hundred. Love here is an endless dialogue, and as long as it continues, everything continues. Psychology • You fall in love with the mind: banality extinguishes feelings faster than any argument • You need news, jokes, exchange of thoughts—long silence together is harder to bear than conflict • Interest flickers: today it burns, tomorrow it fades, the day after it burns again—and this is a normal rhythm, not betrayal • Texting is a separate genre of love: a well-timed message excites like a touch, while ignoring hurts like a slap • You easily become infatuated with several things at once—and with each one completely sincerely Gift / Strength • The ease with which you relieve tension: one precise joke—and there's no argument, only laughter • A lively interest in the person that prevents relationships from growing stale and turning into a schedule • Flexibility: you know how to negotiate rather than fight, to find formulations rather than blame • Youthfulness of heart—with you it's never boring, not after a year, not after twenty Shadow / Weakness • Superficiality: many contacts—little depth, many acquaintances—few close ones • Words instead of actions: it's easier to say something beautifully than to do it, and you know this • Boredom drives you to seek something more intense—even when objectively everything is good • Scatteredness with money: small expenses unnoticedly eat away at big plans Sphere of Expression • Words: letters, messages, compliments, private jokes between two—your currency of tenderness • Shared trips, courses, books—love grows through discovering new things together • Social life together: guests, friends, conversations until dawn in other people's kitchens • Style is light and playful: details that you want to look at and ask about The practice for your Venus is depth through curiosity. It seems to you that you already know everything about the person beside you: you've heard their stories, you can predict their reactions. This is an illusion—the most insidious of all, because it kills interest, and interest for you is love itself. Ask questions that have never been asked: about childhood fears, about unfulfilled dreams, about what the person never dared to tell anyone. You'll see—beside you lives a whole unknown world, and it was waiting precisely for your curiosity. One person is a library, not a single book. Your Venus knows how to skillfully turn pages. Teach it to read to the end—and it will never be bored.

Children born when Venus was in Gemini easily and with a smile talk about their love. They can make friends with many people at once, but these relationships will always be somewhat superficial. Such children try to avoid deep emotional experiences and strong preferences. They do not like the feeling of responsibility and limitations that any close relationships impose. These children do not show excessive emotions and do not understand this in others. As parents and teachers, you should not forget this. When talking to such a child, it is better to address the mind, rather than the feelings. By this path, you will achieve a lot and enjoy communicating with your child. Children with Venus in Gemini are like bright butterflies that flutter from flower to flower. They give everyone their charm and wit, but nowhere stay. Their motto is: "Beauty of life in its diversity." They easily get along with any people. "All people are different" - this difficult truth they, perhaps, understand and accept, enjoying the diversity of the world. Everything earthly is dull and unbearable for them - they flutter high in the clouds. Their need for people, for communication is so strong that only in a large and diverse society they reveal all their best qualities and... are happy. Born under Venus in Gemini, they have a sense of humor, and it's always pleasant and interesting to communicate with them. Any new ideas and impressions bring them unparalleled satisfaction. They are interested in everything, and they know everything, even a little bit. They love any communication, easily and skillfully express their thoughts, and appreciate any manifestations of such artistry in others. They quickly get along with people, they always have many acquaintances, but, subconsciously, they avoid too close relationships and too deep emotions. They love to travel, move from one place to another. A change of environment always benefits them. Maybe the main thing for these children is to learn to be more balanced in their feelings, to learn to be reliable and faithful. They have remarkable creative abilities, and in the future, they can become good writers, teachers, actors, and orators. Only remember: they do not tolerate loneliness, even temporary. The absence of the opportunity to communicate with people can cause depression. New forms of learning, public activity, and oratory - all this is extremely interesting and will bring your child immense satisfaction.

They love variety in love and social relationships. Thirst for events and curiosity about people prevent them from entering into long-term relationships. Players in love, possibly several marriages (multiple families) or a young wife in old age. Witty and eloquent. They need freedom of movement and devote a lot of time to social affairs and pleasures. They write poetry and satire, do not like rudeness, and are prone to flirting. Good relationships with family and friends. They love dancing, banquets, and dressing up. They want to feel everything, everywhere. Possible difficulty breathing due to carelessness in clothing. In love, you are more attracted to your loved one's sense of humor and intelligence than to her or his physical attributes. You like women (respectively, men) who are intellectually alive, forcing you to constantly be in some uncertainty, in the unknown, what else can be expected from her or him. You become restless, you become bored with a woman (respectively, a man), who (who) never asks questions, always remains the same (the same), and does not surprise you with anything. To feel like a happy person, you need to talk with your loved one, exchange thoughts with him, take walks together, run errands or go for walks, and learn new things together. You need society. Sometimes you like to flirt. You like to have many friends of both sexes. You are suffocating from communicating with a tyrannical, jealous woman (and therefore a man).

As your child expresses their love and creative potential, they will enjoy the process of learning. Satisfying their curiosity about life, people, and everything within reach will bring them great joy. They will be flirtatious and playful in expressing affection, but may seem a bit superficial or inconsistent, as this is only their need for variety and light touches. Do not try to hold onto this "wandering spark." Conversations and all forms of communication are very important to them in all relationships. They will be drawn to a bright mind and wit. Your child will likely be sociable, kind, and empathetic - and they love to receive the same from others. But they are too independent and do not like sentimentalities and other such "nonsense." Express closeness and affection through conversations and listening. Sit next to them and read a book or watch a movie, but do not just read and watch - talk to them about it, exchange opinions, ask questions, and stimulate ideas. They will be drawn to art and beauty in various forms. Try to offer them free painting, fun fast dances, and singing (they may have a pleasant voice), playing the violin, guitar, or wind instrument. They will likely be fascinated by computer games or puppet shows. In dealing with money and property, they will be guided by objectivity and reason; they will highly value intellectual property (for example, books).

Venusian Geminis in a harmonious version enjoy popularity among the opposite sex, although in love, besides conversations, they are capable of little else, due to their common Gemini surface and lack of empathy. Venus orients Geminis towards aesthetic currents, for example, the current of formal art (abstract painting, poetry), with poor Venus development or afflictions - intellectual-aesthetic snobbery and narrow-mindedness, proclaiming the principle "art for art's sake" in the sense of "art for those who understand it, and that's me!", although real perception (not to mention creation) of art works is greatly hindered by a mental filter, in them, mainly, they see (and value) the informational content, scheme, and formal structure. With good Venus development - the understanding of aesthetic currents, literary and artistic criticism, the creation of philosophy and methodology of art, concepts, and classifications of types of love, with poor - petty philosophy and chatter on the same topics, sharp (and with afflictions) distorted tastes. If there is no strong affliction, beauty and elegance of expression of thoughts.

A deep impression of rationality is stamped on the emotions, the mind being like a filter. The emotions are hindered from developing and expressing themselves due to an overly close attention to oneself. Narcissism. A detached and perceptive curiosity towards the loved one; discord is not excluded: viewing relationships as if from outside, from the position of a detached observer. The determining factor is the desire to be loved. In young age, there may sometimes appear a desire to flirt, kindling feelings in others only to confirm the strength of one's own charm. When emotions develop harmoniously - a sense of the need for a close intellectual connection in the background of romantic relationships. In sexual relationships - eroticism that can intensify and become more complex due to interest in the partner. Great charm. Ease in expressing emotions, the ability to entice with words.