Venus in Aries

Here Venus is in Mars’s domicile, in a fire sign. This is the so-called detriment of Venus – meaning the sign opposite its domicile (Venus rules Libra) is the sign of detriment for the planet. Venus in Aries in your chart, on a psychological level, will give sharp, intense, even somewhat crude feelings, which are karmically still forming. Aries is associated with directness of expression, therefore, your feelings are usually expressed vividly, with a great outpouring of energy. You probably invest your whole self into your expressed emotions. Most likely, internally you are an emotionally passionate and impetuous person, enthusiastic and impulsive, quick to flare up, and sometimes suddenly overwhelmed by emotions. Your expression of feelings sometimes goes beyond the bounds of propriety. Periods of intense passions can be replaced by periods of apathy and emotional indifference. Since Aries is associated with a momentary, extreme outburst, when all your energy is invested in an emotion, a period of recovery must follow. However, it should be noted that in reality, everything usually appears somewhat more complex. The aforementioned behavior of a person with Venus in Aries does not account for the influence of social phenomena, norms, and upbringing. In most cases, such intense displays of feelings in society cause widespread misunderstanding or condemnation, and other people will not always emotionally accept you. Such a social reaction can be perceived by you as somewhat painful, and you begin to suppress the expression of your feelings at an early stage or starting from childhood, preventing them from unfolding. Since Venus in Aries is in Mars’s domicile, and Mars characterizes will, volitional control of emotions is quite possible: you "clench them in your fist" and do not allow them to manifest. This is especially noticeable in women. The consequence of such suppression is usually a subsequent depressive state, because these outbursts are held back at too high a cost. Lacking normal conditions for expressing your emotions, you sometimes fall into melancholy, becoming gloomy and irritable. However, there are situations when social control diminishes. One such moment occurs when you are greatly angered; then you, as it were, receive permission not to adhere to the boundaries of social approval. In this case, you often begin to express yourself more naturally than usual. Or it could be a situation where genuine relationships exist, and you know that you will be accepted regardless of your expression, and there will be no "slap on the wrist," even if it is too open. In this case, you can indeed manifest almost exactly according to our descriptions. Apparently, you are easily ignited, you have a fiery temperament, you are affectionate and selfless, extravagant and uneconomical in your feelings, and you may have a strong desire for possession. With Venus in Aries, women resemble Amazons, and men resemble conquerors, and this practically does not depend on the spiritual level; you simply have this type of energy. You may be a person of an extremely high level of spiritual development, but nevertheless, your energy is most likely of a conquering nature. You most likely prefer active partners or show great initiative in relationships. You probably fall in love easily and are, in principle, capable of infidelity, but only under the influence of passion, on impulse. You usually experience failures in love, and the rejection of your feelings, not only in the romantic sphere, very intensely. Since you invest everything into your feelings, and these are enormous impulses, their rejection leads to an "emotional collapse" and causes a severe depressive state, and recovery takes quite a long time, because Aries is a sign of the first zone, and its internal potentials are still weakly formed. Although Aries is outwardly a very strong sign, in reality, it has almost no core internally, meaning that inner resilience, those reserves, by which one can quickly recover. However, one also needs to look at the position and status of Saturn, which indicates the method of recovery. If a strong Saturn is not observed in your cosmogram, then you will probably take a very long time to recover after a setback, which is why your relationships with people can be quite complex. Moreover, if you are a woman, an interesting point is that, on the one hand, you most likely have a normal human desire for a man to be a leader, to control the situation, but on the other hand, you resemble an Amazon and do not like to be led. You are capable of often "pouncing" on your man and loving him very actively. But if a man starts to irritate you, you may begin to break free. Most likely, you often encounter problems with choice. The sign of Aries is always a problem of choice; your vision is colored in black and white tones, and it can be difficult for you to find a harmonious position. Your behavior in situations of choice can be likened to a task in one of psychology's test systems: an Amazonian girl sits on the branch of a tall tree, afraid to jump but refusing to be taken down. The best solution is as follows: a person who knows nothing approaches and simply takes her down from the tree. Everyone remains satisfied, especially the Amazon, because she is relieved of the necessity to make a choice. As a rule, men find it quite difficult to deal with a woman who has Venus in Aries, because these women in love do not always know how to behave or what to choose – whether to assert their independence or to feel like a woman, to feel that they are following a man. In general, the criterion of harmony is most likely a whole problem for you. Due to a "black-and-white" assessment of reality, you are capable of rushing from one extreme to another, therefore, you may lack diplomacy in relationships with a partner, as well as harmony and balance in love. And with an afflicted Venus in Aries, you may even exhibit some rudeness in relationships. For you to develop emotionally normally and establish your criterion of harmony, you must always actively seek it, actively engage in activities. You grasp harmony precisely in dynamics, in action. There is almost no stasis in your life, and therefore these criteria are not spontaneously developed. Since Venus is also associated with the accumulation of strength and rest, it would be better for you to prefer active forms of recreation, such as tourism with a fairly high level of exertion.

Children with Venus in Aries tend to think first of all about themselves, about satisfying their needs. They prefer to take rather than give. This applies to everything, and first of all to love. They believe that everything should be exactly the way they want. Such children need to learn to think about others, make compromises, and most importantly, learn to put themselves in the shoes of others. By nature, Aries are hot-tempered and aggressive, which is not very harmonious with the soft, passive and receptive nature of Venus. This is quite natural, because the sign of Aries is subordinate to Mars, just as Libra is subordinate to Venus. These are two opposing signs in the circle of the Zodiac, they are in eternal confrontation, like Mars and Venus. Therefore, the presence of Venus in the sign of Aries is very curious: a kind of search for harmony between conflicting forces! Such children are not very eager to make friends and are not particularly upset when they lose them. They can be touchy, irritable and inattentive to others, sometimes even rude. Teach them to think about others, their feelings and desires. These children are not interested in other people's opinions. They do not need popularity and success in society. Above all, they value their independence. If they don't like something, they just leave. They may seem easy due to their rapidly changing relationship preferences and impulsiveness. They can grow up to be people with a very difficult character, unless, of course, they understand their shortcomings and want to correct them. Like all fire signs, Aries are very energetic and can be fiery and passionate (when they want, of course). They are dynamic and love bold experiments. They adore the color red and energetic music such as marches or classical works by Rachmaninoff (a composer born under the sign of Aries!). They prefer everything that is fickle, dynamic, and mobile. They will not save money for the sake of money, they will spend it on what they need. But any thing depreciates too quickly in their eyes - their tastes change instantly. Now you understand how difficult it is to cope with such a child and how he needs your skillful help. It can be compared to a rough diamond that you must cut and polish so that it radiates the light of warmth and love.

As your child expresses their love and creative potential, they naturally express their attachment. They will give you quick, enthusiastic hugs with energy and joy. Their energy is drawn to initiative, independence, and diverse active activities. They can quickly acquire a new friend, especially if they see some "spark" in them. However, this friend needs to maintain this "spark," or your child may shift to someone else. Don't expect this child to put aside some pocket money. "Now" is the most attractive; the future is too far away, so money quickly burns a "hole in the pocket." They will tend to buy something under the influence of impulse. Bright, free artistic forms will attract them and encourage creativity. Try giving your child a large palette with big brushes and bright paint jars. Try dance lessons, especially sports. Suggest playing percussion instruments. Your child may enjoy modeling hairstyles or headwear or making jewelry.

Impulsive and aggressive expression of feelings. Mad love, readiness for instant temptation, obsession, persistence in courting, strong sexual attraction, especially in youth, tactlessness, too much activity in love, spending of feelings at the first step. Militancy in art. Big expenses on embellishment. Romantic feelings and desires arise easily in you, but they are not long-lasting and disappear after the first emotional period of "courting and winning". You like active, lively women (and correspondingly men) with a strong and independent character. And you don't like it when romantic relationships become calm and predictable. You need sparks to fly from the love fire from time to time. Even if it means starting a quarrel.

The streams broadcast by Aries with Venus strongly appeal to the opposite sex. If other factors do not contradict, women will take their breath away from such a man, and he feels it. Venus softens the characteristic rudeness of Aries in two respects: firstly, it strongly orients it towards aesthetic, socially acceptable energy flows, and secondly, it facilitates (subconscious) contact with the outside world. In moments of depression, such an Aries can receive significant relief from the characteristic Venusian consolations (art, luxury goods, love of the opposite sex), which is not typical for the depression of an Aries without Venus.

Love arises spontaneously, of its own accord, sympathies and antipathies emerge instantly. The forms are the most varied: from love at first sight to unexpected repeated flashes of loving feeling. No reasoning is capable of influencing the feeling: this is blind love, which is not concerned with anyone's persuasion and influence. It is not excluded that a greedy passion will flare up not once, but every time in the heart there will be certainty that this love is the last. The feelings towards the beloved being are very simple and sincere, but short-lived.

Passionate character: initiative, enterprise. There are many worries and worries in life. Early marriage, misfortune through a woman. In the horoscope of women there is activity in harassing men. Venus in Aries is in exile, so such people need personal recognition and are prone to selfishness. With bad aspects - harshness, rudeness. With good ones, they are pleasant people, often capable of art. In the female horoscope - an unhappy marriage.